Embracing Beauty at 50 and Beyond: Navigating Colorism in Aging

As we age 50 and beyond, our perception of beauty and societal standards evolve. I say, "Amen" to the "I could care less mindset" we adopt as we age! However, one issue that goes unaddressed is colorism. We still have to show come-passion and acknowledge the trauma so many African Americans have experienced because of our melanated skin. 

Colorism, the prejudice or discrimination against individuals with a darker skin tone, is a pervasive issue that impacts people of all ages. In the context of aging, the effects of colorism can be particularly pronounced as wrinkles, age spots, and other signs of aging become more visible. Navigating these challenges requires a shift in mindset and a redefinition of beauty standards.

At 50 and beyond, it’s essential to celebrate the diversity of beauty and challenge the narrow ideals perpetuated by society. Embracing our unique African features and different black hues can be empowering and liberating. By doing so, we not only redefine beauty for ourselves but also for future generations.

A friendly reminder: Self-care and self-love play a crucial role in embracing beauty at any age.  Taking care of our skin, practicing mindfulness, surrounding ourselves with good friends, and engaging in activities that bring us joy can enhance our confidence and self-esteem.

Representation Matters! It’s important to recognize the influence of media and popular culture in shaping beauty standards. By seeking out diverse representations of beauty in media and black-owned brands that promote us, we can contribute to a more inclusive and accepting society.

Furthermore, engaging in conversations about colorism and aging can help raise awareness and foster understanding. By sharing our experiences and learning from others, we can create a more supportive and empathetic community.

Embracing beauty at 50 and beyond is crucial to prioritizing self-acceptance and compassion. Our worth is not defined by societal standards, and every individual deserves to feel beautiful and valued, regardless of age or skin color.

Finally, navigating colorism in aging requires a shift in perspective and a commitment to celebrating diversity. By embracing the fact that our black is beautiful and challenging discriminatory beauty standards, we can pave the way for the change we want to see.