Weekend Rituals: Pouring Into Your Soul (Because, You Deserve It)

Mar 07, 2025By Dr. Debra Lewis
Dr. Debra Lewis

It's all about the weekend! We know they can disappear in a flash, filled with errands, family obligations, and the ever-growing to-do list. But what if we shifted our perspective? What if we saw weekends as sacred time, a chance to truly pour into ourselves, to replenish our energy, and to reconnect with our inner selves?

So, what does pouring into yourself look like? It's not a one-size-fits-all approach. It's about finding what nourishes your soul and brings you joy. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

In a world that's constantly buzzing with noise, silence can be a sanctuary. Wake up early and enjoy a cup of tea in peace. Take a walk in nature and listen to the sounds of the birds. Turn off your phone and simply be present in the moment.

Prepare a delicious and healthy meal for yourself. Take a long, relaxing bath with essential oils. Get a massage or try a new form of exercise. Give your body the care and attention it deserves.

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Read a book that inspires you. Listen to a podcast that makes you think. Watch a documentary that expands your horizons. Engage in activities that stimulate your mind and spark your creativity.

Engage in prayer, meditation, or journaling. Spend time in nature and reflect on your blessings. Connect with your inner self and cultivate a sense of peace and gratitude.

Spend time with loved ones who lift you up and make you laugh. Attend a cultural event or support a local black-owned business. Engage in activities that connect you to your community and celebrate your heritage.

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This is your time, ladies. Do the things that make your heart sing. Whether it's dancing to your favorite music, painting, gardening, or simply relaxing in your favorite chair, prioritize activities that bring you joy and make you feel alive.

Pouring into you is essential. It's about replenishing your energy so you can continue to be the amazing Black woman that you are. This weekend, make a conscious effort to prioritize your well-being. Give yourself permission to rest, recharge, and reconnect with your inner self. As Kendrick Lamar says, “You deserve it all!”

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