What Are You Ready to Release?

Dr. Debra Lewis
Mar 06, 2025By Dr. Debra Lewis

Alright, let's get back into the swing of things. I know life gets busy, and sometimes my blog takes a backseat. But we're here now, ready to reconnect. Let's talk about something that's been on my mind lately, something I think resonates deeply with us as women: the art of releasing.

We've accumulated so much over the years, haven't we? Not just material things but also emotional baggage, outdated beliefs, and even relationships that no longer serve us. We carry the weight of expectations, the echoes of past experiences, and the lingering "shoulds" that have shaped our lives.

But here's the thing: holding onto all of that is exhausting. It's like trying to carry a heavy suitcase that's packed with things we don't even need anymore. It weighs us down, limits our freedom, and prevents us from moving forward with lightness and grace.

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And honestly, as we enter this phase of life, we don't have time for that. We've earned the right to shed unnecessary burdens and create space for joy, peace, and new possibilities.

The question is, how do we begin the process of releasing?

Get rid of clothes you no longer wear, books you no longer read, and anything that doesn't bring you joy. This act of physical release can often create a sense of emotional lightness.

Don't suppress your feelings. Allow yourself to feel them, acknowledge them, and release them with compassion. Journaling, talking to a trusted friend, or seeking professional help can be invaluable tools for processing emotions.

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Challenge the negative narratives that hold you back. Are you still clinging to beliefs about yourself that no longer serve you? Are you still carrying the weight of past mistakes? It's time to release those beliefs and create new, empowering ones.

Release toxic relationships. This can be one of the most challenging but also one of the most liberating steps. If there are people in your life who consistently drain your energy or make you feel bad about yourself, it's time to set boundaries or even let them go.

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Practice forgiveness. Forgiveness isn't about condoning harmful behavior; it's about releasing yourself from the burden of resentment and anger. Forgive others, and more importantly, forgive yourself. (That Part!)

Let go of the regrets of the past and the anxieties of the future. Focus on the present moment, and find joy in the simple things.

Create space for new beginnings: Releasing the old creates space for the new. Be open to new opportunities, new experiences, and new relationships.

Releasing isn't a one-time event; it's an ongoing process. It's about making conscious choices to let go of what no longer serves us and to create a life that reflects our true values and desires. It’s also about giving yourself grace during the process.

What are you ready to release? What are you ready to let go of? Take a deep breath, trust your intuition, and begin the journey of releasing. You deserve to live a life that's light, joyful, and free.

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